Barry Updates

I spent time with my family over the last few days,  James was also with us. I asked him for an update on Barry. Following his visit with Barry, James contacted a number of mutual friends and discussed what options they have regarding their friend Barry. James learned of Barry's sister and brother (got their names) and did a internet search for their contact information and called Barry's sister. James called and talked with her, starting the conversation by stating something along the lines of - I know you don't know me, but I didn't want to meet you at a funeral and have to say this to you. I'm a friend of your brother Barry and I want you to know what he is planning.... James discussed Barry's plan, shared with her about his recent visit with Barry and encouraged her to intervene also. Barry's sister called their brother (Barry and this brother haven't talked for year) and then she called Barry to inquire what she could do to help. Barry was angry and frustrated and wanted to know which of his friends called her. She didn't let Barry know, but James feels like it won't take him long to figure out who called and really he isn't worried about Barry figuring it out. What vexes James - the friends who haven't talked to Barry directly will continue to have a friendship with Barry. James and Barry's friendship will probably be strained because of what he did - which is everything he could to keep Barry alive. 

What is a friendship worth? Is it worth laying it on the line to keep someone alive? I think so. I'm so amazed with James' actions, care, and his heart. 

My hope is that all of us on this planet could come to the place where we recognize our interconnectedness to each other. Whatever we do ripples out to the universe and the ripples touch others' lives. We must care for each other. We must hold onto each other. We must show our love for each other. It is "that" that keeps us human, alive, and happy.

Barry is staying in his apartment for a few more months, thanks to an extension to his Unemployment Benefits (thanks to the federal government). It makes me curious if he was or would really follow through with this suicide plan. Either way, Barry knows people love him and care about him. Either way Barry has more to consider as he thinks about today, tomorrow, and the days following. I hope that he knows the value of his ounces.